"I don't care"

I'm going to call these my 30's, because that's when I noticed it happened. Not saying this happens for everyone during that time period, but for me it did. Some things I noticed that "I don't care" about...

Going to the grocery store with no makeup, in lounge clothes, with my hair thrown up in a messy bun (not a good messy bun, like a rats nest messy bun) #idontcareineedfood

On the flip side....going to the grocery store in my faux leather leggings with a sweater, hooker boots, a wide brimmed hat, full face of makeup, and my extensions lookin poppin'...#idontcareistillneedfood

Friends who don't talk to me anymore...whether this be a falling out, a fight, maybe we get along fine just choose to not talk anymore, their fault, my fault...whatever it may be...THIS WAS A HUGE ONE FOR ME...but what you really need to know is..."I don't care"...#cantdealwithneedyfriendshipssoimsorrybutidontcare - that was a long #

Opinions of others......this is the mother of all mothers...and speaking of mother, if you're reading this I love you...but know that, "I don't care" :). I mean that with the upmost respect, this was probably my biggest "I don't care over the years", I know I don't run my house how you would, eat the things you would, drink the things you would, shower the way you would, etc...but...#imanadultandidontcare

Your opinion of me as a mother!! Mom guilt! WOAH! I left my children all weekend long to go enjoy a weekend out, after working all week and barely seeing them because I have a demanding day job and GUESS WHAT..."I DID NOT, DO NOT, and WILL NOT CARE...cuz I'm a good mom, my babies know I love them, they had a blast without me, and I had a good time with my husband and friends! #momguiltwillnotwin

Bringing PSL out before October...ok I'll admit I hate pumpkin spice, but...I did decorate for fall before September! I will be enjoying Hocus Pocus soon, and I'll prob decorate for Christmas the first part of November instead of waiting for Thanksgiving! BOOM, MIC DROP! Guess what, I do it because I want to and because I like to decorate! So step off! #idowhatiwantwheniwant

There's so many more but these are to name a few...if your not to this place in your life but would love to be, reach out to me, there's so many good books, blogs, personal development I used to get there that I would love to share with you!!!! If you are already there, congratulations!! Welcome to life and to living it to the fullest!! Now here's the important part of this...if you think you've made it, portray you've made it to others, but really deep down feel like your questioning that...reach out to me...cuz I know you, I've been you, and I would love to help you live life the way you were meant to live it!